And unfortunately we think or we might like to think that we are free of these attributes but the reality is that majority of us are suffering and are failing at one or multiple levels and have fallen prey to these two sinful attributes. The second word hasad means to be envious or jealous towards another person in your heart. One of the major illnesses of the heart is to have what is called bughuz and hasad.īughuz means to have spite, malice or hatred towards somebody else or simply speaking to have ill-will, to have harbor negative feelings towards another human being in your heart. It is more important to us that people who live in relatively secluded lives, it is very important for us to learn what the deen of Islam says about how we are suppose to interact with other people. Therefore it is very important that when we are placed in such a setting in which we have extensive interaction with people, some are friends, some are class mates, some are acquaintances, some are colleagues, some are instructors, some are students, so in this realm extensive interaction is critical. The more n more opportunities for conflict, controversy, more n more you are exposing yourself to being hurt and more n more you are granting the ability to yourself to hurt other people. When a person comes to university and you mingle with so many different students or when you live in the dorm and you live with so many different students or the more n more contact and the more n more contact you have with other people then the more n more flash points there are. One of the major challenge human beings has is precisely how to interrelate with other human beings. On one side we are talking about our love for Allah swt at the same time we have different character attributes different relationships that we might have with other people. In fact part of beauty of the deen of Islam is that not only it has been revealed upon us on adab towards Allah swt but it has also been revealed how to behave, the moral, etiquettes and adab one should have towards fellow believers & momineen as well as the adab we should have towards the whole of humanity itself. The Deen of Islam has also mentioned very important thing which is haqooq-ul-ibad which is the rights and responsibilities that we have of our fellow human beings.
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